MOODY MUCH?

Well I don't know why but some of my friends are kinda moody.......and they just love to snap at me for some question that I ask....it's in school by the way,and it's very annoying because it makes me feel like I'm a lousy friend.....and I have like complains from them too which kinda made me think why can't they just live with the people that they don't get along? I mean God made them like that so just accept it.....I look at that situation like that because I see people who are very tolerant with me.....I'm the worst friend that you could ever be friend .....that was like in primary 6 . And you should thank God that you don't have to see me like that now....all,I learn from a faithful friend who was so considerate that I finally realized what I did was wrong.....

It's not my job to tell my friends that they have to change or that they have issues....because it's not going to work that way....I know that my friends see me as immature and therefore wouldn't take me seriously and some more I don't want them to be someone they are not. If I were to tell them that they have issues, there is a chance where they feel they have to change and if that happens, they would try to be someone they are not or, they would take you on the negative side..they might even deny it and yeah it goes to alot more spider webs that could dig up old past that they would use against you.

I know that a good friend would tell them what is wrong with them and that is what I am going to do. You know there is two types of cases of telling your friend?

One is when your friend is doing something sinful,like say she is taking drugs or she is planning to commit suicide. That is when you should advice your friend.When they do something very VERY wrong.

Another is when your friend does something that hurts people.
this is when they start doing evil plots to HURT their friend, like in High School Musical three when the actor Ashley Tisdale planned all the evil things...that is when you tell them.

Look, if you are a good friend, you would FIRST learn to be considerate with others especially those who gets on your nerves.....if you find them hurting you then tell them or tell your other friends.....you should know that when you tell them that they are hurting you then you should also know that you are going to face alot of consequences. You shouldn't be afraid to tell them and it's best that you tell them yourself rather than telling people to tell them because there is a chance that they would see it differently and then give inaccurate information.

You should know that if you can't accept your friends now then when you go out of Brunei will you realize that friends like them are so much better.

You know who you are. It's time that you tell that person yourself. I will always be here to tell you wether you are right or wrong....trust me I know when you aren't.ANd you should also know that when you tell me the issues that that person has it could also lead to GOSSIP. Which is why I try to reduce the topic and try to tell you that you should just accept her the way she is.

I came across this verse right after a heated convo.....when i was doing my devotion....12Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.13Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. Collosians 3:13-14